Apparently, this month has both national friendship day AND national girlfriend’s day in it. So in light of celebrating good friends, I’m recommending five books that you should read with a friend.
The start of one of my closest friendships was when a woman about my age that I had met only twice, sent me a book in the mail and said: “read this.” Not only was it a book that I completely identified with, it was a book that began a friendship that I believe will last forever. We are each other’s people.
Who knew a book could start a lifelong friendship? But the reality is that both of us have been through some tough life situations recently and motherhood has not come easily to either of us. Since neither of us has all the answers to life’s questions, it’s been helpful to read books on our own and discuss them together. We don’t always read the same book but it’s been incredible to be able to encourage each other with what we’ve learned.
Here are five of my favorite books that you can send to a someone who you want to be soul sisters with.
Life Creative
This is a beautiful book that every mom should read whether they believe they are creative or not. It’s a compilation of stories of women who have found different ways to be creative while also raising a family. It’s truly inspiring. They also have a chapter called “The Dark Ages,” about the early years of child-raising and it spoke straight to my heart.
Carry On Warrior
This is the most honest book on motherhood I’ve ever read. While I don’t agree entirely with everything Glennon Doyle says, her honesty is beautiful in its openness and vulnerability. If you or a mom friend are in the trenches of motherhood, read this book. You will feel that you are not alone in this incredibly difficult journey of motherhood.
Grace not Perfection
I know I will go back and read this book over and over again. Emily Ley writes in such a personal way that you feel like you are talking to a good friend. She is truly an inspiration in the way she prioritizes family while also pursuing her dream business. She is most known for her simplistic and beautiful planners, but this book is a gem that you need to share.
Big Magic
So, this book isn’t about motherhood. In fact, the author isn’t even a mom. But I still think you should read it. Whether you are an artist or don’t have a creative bone in your body (you do, you just don’t know it yet) this book will inspire you. The author is the same woman who wrote Eat Pray Love, but to be honest with you I like this book better. If you ever have fear or anxiety about starting something new, this book will motivate you to go do it.
Loving the Little Years
While there are many days where I don’t “love the little years,” this book is still full of sound advice. Rachel is a mom of five who is right in the middle of the mess of motherhood. She speaks from a place of “I am right there with you.” She gives both practical and encouraging advice and funny stories that will make you smile and nod your head in agreement.
Reading can often feel like a luxury these days with littles running around. However, I encourage you to find the time to do it. Even better, find a friend to read with you and keep you accountable. Happy reading!
